Thursday, January 17, 2008

Latest Health Update

Unfortunately the news is not good. For the past couple of weeks Janet has had a great deal of difficulty keeping food or liquid down. As a result she has lost more weight and has become progessively weaker. She has had to work at sipping water and gatorade in order to stay hydrated. Her Oncologist was very concerned about this symptom and scheduled her for a medical test to find out what was happening to food or liquid that she consumed. Her sister Marilyn, who has been staying with us for the past couple of days, took her in for the test yesterday. It was a difficult test for Janet in her weakened condition because she had to drink and hold down fluid containing a radioactive trace and then have xrays taken at various times after consuming the liquid. Janet, always the trooper, hung in there and did her best, and as a result the radiologist managed to get some excellent pictures of exactly what was going on. This means that her medical advisors now know why she is having difficulty retaining nourishment. It is because of multiple bowel obstructions caused by the cancer in Janet's peritoneal (tummy area) cavity. We met with Dr. Lam, Janet's Oncologist earlier today and she explained that the bowel is a flexible tube that has no internal support or structure. Food and stool pass through it as a result of smooth muscle contractions on the outside. Janet has cancer that has attached to the outside of the bowel and has effectively collapsed the bowel in a number of places so that virtually nothing can pass through the tube. Operating on Janet is not an option because of the amount of cancer in the area and also because she is not well enough for major surgery. Even if these blockages could be removed by surgery, or by other means, they would re-occur in other areas of her digestive system. Janet has an impending bowel blockage. We had a long conversation with Dr. Lam this morning about futures and next steps. Janet and I are both determined that she remain at home as long as possible. We have arranged for the maximum amount of palliative care within our home and a palliative care nurse will be coming by starting tomorrow. As a backup plan we have advised May's Hospice (a palliative care facility in our neighbourhood) that we may need a bed there if Janet's symptoms worsened beyond what can be managed at home. At this time we have to swing our efforts from fighting Janet's cancer and extending her life towards making her as comfortable as possible. My full time job from now on is going to be staying at home with Janet.

3 comments:

Mark said...

Janet you are a trooper.

Colleen Sigouin said...

Hi Janet,
You have been so brave and courageous throughout this whole illness - I am so very proud to call you my dear friend. You have given so much love and joy to so many over the years and now it is your turn to get some of that in return. So please take that cozy blanket I gave you, wrap it around those strong shoulders and let me take the weight of the world off you for just a few minutes. Think back to the houseboat vacation . . . the girl's weekend, when you were reading Shannie's tarot cards and they were so bad we'd thought Shannie had ran away . . . the border crossing for that trip - border guards with guns, lipstick, coffee and colourful language . . . all of your fundraising including Slave Merchandising's auction and the Donald Duck phone recording in the boardroom - who's your daddy! No one has ever made me laugh as hard as you have - Are we in White Rock, or Surrey?
You are an absolute gem sweetie and I love you so much. Let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do for you.
Love,
Beaner

Junie said...

Janet, again and again thank you for finding the energy on Monday to let me visit you in your beautiful home. My visit with you changed my life in more ways than one and I thank you from my heart for that. You put on such a brave face even though you were feeling a bit crappy. I don't believe I will ever eat Black Grapes again, just Green ones .. I am still laughing about that. I continue to light my candle on the piano every morning. Can you feel the great energy surrounding you warmly every now and again when you least expect it? That's me checking in on you. Take care my friend, hope to see you again soon. Gentle hugs and small kisses. Junie Q